A Homemaker’s Day
A day in the life of the traditional homemaker is markedly different from the day of a woman in the workforce.
Before I Came Home
When I had my first child, Augusta, I was teaching kindergarten in the public schools. I would wake up at 7 am and hurriedly get ready, knowing that I had a 25 minute drive ahead of me and an 8:15 required arrival time. Oh, how I hated to wake up my baby so early in the morning! My husband worked shift work at that time. If he was working, I had to drop her off at my mother-in-law’s house. If he was at home, I would leave her sleeping in her crib.
me, my dad, and Augusta when she graduated from high school in 2013.


A visit to the mountains to see my mom, around 20 years ago

A happy time on a cruise a few years back.

Bathing my fourth child in the sink over fourteen years ago

a homeschool field trip this past Christmas with like-minded friends
Uplifting Encouragement For Homemakers
As an encouragement to all downtrodden homemakers suffering financial and marital consequences for coming home, I’m here to offer an uplifting word. First of all, remember that God called you home. It IS his will for women to be the keepers of the home. You may have family members and friends asking questions like this: What about your retirement? Don’t you think you could help your family more by bringing in a paycheck? How will you be able to afford college for your children? Doesn’t it take two to earn a living? Why aren’t you working (at a paid job) and helping your husband? Are you going back to work once the kids go to school? Do you just sit around all day? They may tell you that God’s command only applied to the first century or that women don’t need to be home now that we have so many modern appliances, etc. Answer their questions as Biblically and politely as possible, while keeping in mind that the natural man doesn’t understand the things of the spirit.My Beautiful Life Today

our lovely little cottage today

a typical blogging project

the two youngest girls, on a recent trip to Myrtle Beach




Blessings!
Kristie
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We also homeschool and I’m grateful for being able to stay home with the kids. I love that animal cell cookie! I think my kids will like this too! Thanks for the idea!
You’re welcome, Hilda!
I really liked your suggestion to find like-minded friends. People who understand you can be a big help and support in any circumstance. Doing what’s right for you and your family can be hard when it’s looked down on by others, but it will always be a blessing in the end–and along the way, too! Thanks for sharing at #heartandsoullinkup
Having like-minded friends helps tremendously.
Good for you for following your heart when the world seemed against you! This is a very inspiring story.
Thanks, Jessica. My goal is to encourage homemaking women in need of support.
I love this and I shared this on my Christian homemaking page.
Thanks for sharing. I subscribed to your site, and I’m looking forward to reading your posts about training homemakers per email!
I came across your posts today at Sew Historically. I stayed home with my three children until the youngest was two. I became a nurse and worked 25 years. I climbed the ladder into administration. I had to retire because my RA became so severe I had flares constantly from the stress of work. Oh and I also divorced when my youngest was six. If I had to do it all over again, I would have stayed home! Both of my boys are married and they have elected to be a one income family, one home schools one does not. They are happy and flourishing in their lives with God being central. I am now able to be a full time grandma and be available to my grown children when they need me but even after working 25 years, I’m asked if I’m going to go back to work or what do I do all day! You have to be around like minded families of individuals to encourage and lift one another up. Great blog post!
Bobbi, your comment encourages me so much. I’m so happy that you are home now, and able to freely enjoy your grandchildren. We need more honest women like you, to tell the younger women the truth. Your daughters-in-law are lucky!
I wish I could be a stay at home mom,although I wouldn’t venture into homeschooling, I just don’t have th patience for it. I lo ve helping my kids with their homework, but I wouldn’t want to do it full time.
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Homeschooling is a lot of fun when you love to teach. It took me several years, financially, before I could leave my teaching job. After I came home I had to pick up short-term jobs on and off for at least 6 years before my husband’s income sort of covered everything. It’s pretty hard to go from 2 incomes to 1.
Glad you stuck it through and are able to enjoy your homemaker’s life. We have 4 boys ages 1 through 12 and while I am not homeschooling, I do feel sometimes to pressure of going back to work. I used to teach 3rd grade before my first was born but never went back to work full time. But I do appreciate having a more flexible schedule and being able to spend time with my youngest!
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I will pray that you get to stay home, Mireille!
Thanks for sharing your story. I also thinking the key to holding it all together is having God central in your marriage and family. Women are natural nurturers and home-makers, if you have that opportunity to be a stay-at-home mom, take it! Even if it’s just part time or working at home, being with the kids matters. For those single moms providing for their families, do the best you can, don’t give up, God knows your heart.
Knowing Jesus IS the thing that brought me home, and encouraged me to stay throughout the persecution. ❤️
This has been our story as well.
Blessings to you!
I will go to your blog, and check out your story, Michele!
This is such a lovely, encouraging post! I’d like to feature it this week at Tuesdays with a Twist. I hope you have time to link with us again. -Marci @ Stone Cottage Adventures
Thanks Marci! I am honored. ?
I loved reading your story. I was home when my 2 kids were small, went back to work part-time, got divorced, and went back full time. Second marriage to a childhood sweetheart went south fast as he spiraled downward into alcoholism (Thank God for recovery programs!). Working let me build a retirement fund and a pension so that, at 67, I do not have to depend on anyone financially. MY SO and I are enjoying retirement and do more for our small country church, too. I thank God for a college education and a profession that enabled me to do this. I enjoy my one, 2 almost steps, and his 5 grandchildren and do more for them than I could for my own kids at that age.
Yes, divorce happens, and unfortunately, women and children are the financial victims. I always think about Hagar in the Bible, and how God took care of her when circumstances changed beyond her control.I’m so glad that you’re retired now, and able to enjoy those beautiful grandchildren!